Some people seem to have a special something that attracts others in droves - yet it's not obvious exactly what it is.
Maybe you've even had a few friends with this almost magical X factor.
What exactly is it? What's it called?
The phenomenon I'm referring to is charisma.
Can you become charismatic or is it genetic?
Many psychologists will tell you it's something you're born with.
But I'm a firm believer that it's something you can develop.
Here are two attributes of the charismatic person. (With a little work, you can develop them as well.)
1) Being More Mysterious:
There are two sides to this.
The first is developing contradictory personality traits.
An example of a charismatic political leader with contradictory personality traits is Peter the Great. He was both cruel and kind.
When you have contradictory personality traits people cannot categorize you.
A woman may become angry or frustrated that she cannot figure you out. However, this will spellbound her.
The second part is being uncanny.
When people think you have supernatural powers they see you as charismatic.
This is why cult leaders and some political stewards (in some parts of the world) are perceived by others as possessing charisma.
2) Inspiring Others To Be Better Than They Are:
If you can goad a person into seeing themselves as better than they currently are, they will see you as charismatic. If you can spur them to take action on this realization, they'll see you as a super charismatic person.
John F. Kennedy was a master at this.
He spellbound America when he said, "It's not what your country can do for you, but what you can do for your country."
That's because he inspired people to be better than they are.
Here's your homework assignment:
1) Write down two of your personality traits that are in contradiction with one another. Instead of trying to conceal them, develop them and flaunt them.
2) Whenever a friend is feeling down think of how you can make them see themselves in a better light.
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